Proverbs
Those Who Are Wiser
“Conceited people do not like to be corrected; they never ask for advice from those who are wiser” (Proverbs 15:12, GNB).
It is a tragedy that those who need advice the most are the ones who, because of their arrogance, want it the least. Yet, even for those who are wiser, receiving correction and advice (sometimes unsolicited) can be challenging. Asking God for a receptive and discerning mind is important. Be receptive to good advice, and discerning of harmful advice or unmerited correction given in a hurtful way.
On the other side of the situation, it's important to speak up when your advice may help a friend, but it's also vital to be discerning and to give advice or corrective comments in a way that is positive and constructive. It's important to wait for the right moment, when an individual has realized the need for wise counsel.
When did you last receive "corrective" advice? Did you handle it well? If not, how could you improve?