As we grow and transition from a state of dependence to independence, we start to think about how we can contribute to our family, church and community. We know that we have capability that is developing and could be helpful, if only it was recognized. How can we best develop our interests and aptitudes, and how can we use them to make a contribution?

Implicit in the question is the desire to benefit others. If we desire to benefit others, it is important to consider their needs and place them first. We might wonder what we have to contribute at first, yet there might be a need someone has that is well within our ability to help, that we might not even realize.

If we feel like all the jobs are taken, then it may be helpful to be creative about who to ask and where to look. As a pastor, I know that there are people who would love visits and someone to talk to. If you are willing to share some time, then you could develop a new friendship. There are also those who need rides to and from services. This is a nice way to serve and get to know others in the congregation.

There are also opportunities that don’t require an ongoing obligation, such as helping someone clean for Days of Unleavened Bread, or to pack/unpack from a move.

Jesus Christ encourages us to consider the needs of others in multiple passages. In Matthew 23:11-12, He says, “he who is greatest among you shall be your servant…and he who humbles himself will be exalted.” He then went on to set an amazing example to us by demonstrating His willingness to serve with humility by washing His disciples’ feet in John 13:1-17. As we consider the opportunities to contribute and how they might not seem like the best jobs, we can consider Christ’s words to His disciples and us in John 13:13-17 as he concluded washing their feet, “You call Me Teacher and Lord, and you say well, for so I am. If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet. For I have given you an example, that you should do as I have done to you. Most assuredly, I say to you, a servant is not greater than his master; nor is he who is sent greater than he who sent him. If you know these things, blessed are you if you do them.” 

Thank you for your willingness to share and contribute. We will have more articles about how to identify and develop your unique talents and interests, which may lead to more and unique ways that you can serve that align with your specific skills and abilities.