What Does the Bible Say About Someone Who Commits Suicide?

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The Bible records some examples of people committing suicide. While we find no commentary with these incidences, it’s covered in principle in the Sixth Commandment. Suicide is an act of murder. (We recommend that you read the section on this commandment in our booklet The Ten Commandments.)

While there can be no doubt that taking one’s life is wrong, suicide is often a complex matter. Perhaps others are quick to judge and condemn people who take their own lives. But we should avoid the tendency to oversimplify this tragic type of death. Individuals who commit suicide often have been struggling with serious problems, such as depression, alcoholism or other forms of drug abuse. Taking one’s life isn’t the right way to deal with any trial, but the people who do are likely not thinking clearly.

Is there hope for them to live again? God says He will resurrect all the dead (John 5:28-29), and we know that God wants everyone to have a full chance to repent and be forgiven and to be saved (2 Peter 3:9; 1 Timothy 2:4). The Bible shows that those who did not understand God’s spiritual truth during their lifetimes will have another chance at life, a chance to deal with their problems better. By resurrecting them, God isn’t giving them a second chance at salvation, but rather their only chance. See our Frequently Asked Question, “Will Everyone Have a Chance for Salvation?” for more information about this needful and little understood truth—the second resurrection.

We know that the families and friends of people who “succeed” in committing suicide often suffer terribly, as they struggle to understand why their loved one died in this way. The survivors need a great deal of understanding and comfort.

If we can be of further help, please let us know.

Comments

  • Lena VanAusdle

    I'm so sorry that you find yourself in such difficult circumstances. Please don't take your own life! Do you have family or friends? Do you attend a church regularly? I don't know that I've ever had a day with no worries of any kind either, but I also know that the solutions to my problems can be found in a relationship with God. It's good to work with your psychiatrist and any mental health professional that you have, but include God in the equation, He wants to help you through.

  • Skip Miller

    Hello Michael, I am truly sorry that your situation approaches that of Abby's. It seems that there is no end of misery that exists in this physical world. But a solution also exists! Not everyone will find it immediately but God promises,
    Psalm 42:11 New Living Translation (NLT)
    Why am I discouraged?
    Why is my heart so sad?
    I will put my hope in God!
    I will praise him again—
    my Savior and my God!
    This is not a platitude but a straightforward promise! If we have ever praised God for anything, we will again IF we do not just quit! Have you ever praised God...for anything?
    I remember seeing a little child being pushed in a stroller down my street. I didn't know the mom or the kid but as they passed my house, I was outside and I looked in the stroller and the kid smiled! "Thank you Father in heaven!"

  • jeremiah2911

    Abby I don’t know you but I have been dealing with mental illness for 21 years since I was 12. I got a degree in psychology and have taught myself everything I can on abnormal psychology and psychopharmacology (psychiatric medications). I’ve only been walking with Christ for 16 months, but I had complex ptsd and an addiction to morphine and oxycodone, and without the help of a therapist and only God, I crawled my way out of hell. I went from not leaving my house for 6+ months to living alone now. I am the happiest I have ever been. Please email me jeremiah2911svcs @ yahoo . Com and I will give you my phone number. You can call and text me 24/7 anytime you need to talk. I won’t judge you and if you need advice I will offer it but if you just need someone to listen I will always do that. God hasn’t let you take your life or taken your life himself yet. You are still alive for a reason. You have a purpose. I know you can’t fathom it, because at one point I couldn’t either, but I promise- IT WILL GET BETTER!!!!!

  • Skip Miller

    Thank you Charlee for your answer to Abby. I hear the ring of Truth in what you wrote. Although God is obviously the answer, both the Father and the Son have used mere people to reach out and help, as we can, as we should. I hope that Abby will allow your help.

  • Tonyc

    I'm not sick or depressed. Just trying to find proof that suicide is actually in the bible
    I'm very distrustful perhaps even paranoid.
    Why? I made the mistake in 2015 of trying to defend the globe earth against people on YouTube saying the earth is Flat. Find photos of earth from space they said, give me two minutes, I said, two weeks later no photos of earth from space.
    Instead I found, a funny thing happened on the way to the moon.
    Then found ODDTV and various others.
    Oh my God, could the earth really be flat, with Heaven above and Hell below.
    So is this an open prison we live in, I did more research, I found Marty leads live, who helped me understand that the world is full of Good and Evil. Its our choice to walk the path of Good.
    I've gone back to the bible, Genesis says the sun, moon and stars were created on the fourth day and are inside the firmament.
    I've come to the conclusion that we are made in Gods image and he loves us so much he allowed his only son to die on a cross for our sins.
    There is a battle for our soul and heaven is right above the firmament.
    When I look at the stars I now think, could they really be angels as the bible says. God Bless.

  • Lena VanAusdle

    Abby,
    I'm so sorry for the difficulties you've been facing. On a practical note if you've been on your antidepressants for at least a month, you may need to speak with your doctor about adjusting your dosage or version, sometimes it takes awhile to find the right combination to help you. On a spiritual note, don't lose hope! God does love you, and He definitely doesn't want you to kill yourself. He wants you to live your life and serve Him and other people. Your death would be devastating to your friends and family.

  • Skip Miller

    Hello Abby. I am sorry to hear how really bad you feel but notice the end of your message, " I know God loves me enough, more than enough, to let me be in his arms." You are right! God has a plan for you (and me)(and everyone) but we do not always see it (the whole plan!) right now. God will hold you in His arms! But don't give up! You are a believer! Make that count. Find (pray for) someone who will listen to and Understand you. We humans often (always!) need a human connection even though we may know God is there. You have taken this step to write, Who knows if the answer to that letter is just around the corner? Don't cut off the answer to your prayer.

  • Flash Kenneth

    I'm a double suicide survivor. I attempted suicide in 2005, and my girlfriend completed suicide on 10/17/14. I refuse to believe a loving God would send me to hell for being mentally sick. I do believe this will be my outcome eventually.

  • Skip Miller

    Hello Kenneth,
    You are absolutely correct! " A loving God will not send you to hell for being mentally sick."
    But what a waste! You have not learned enough yet to quit! You know that God is loving. You said so. But evidently you aren't going to allow Him to show YOU that He loves YOU!
    Christ Jesus suffered, others suffer, everybody suffers at times but quitting should not be an option. Please search out a suicide hot line but if you have and it did not help you, write me personally and we can talk.

  • justme123

    so much **** has happened. all i wanna know is if God will forgive me when/ if i commit suicide?
    but i know i wont be sorry?

  • Steven Britt

    Hi Khloe - God cares so much about you, and even just from the small bit that you've shared here, so do many of us. I know it can be hard to see the value in living sometimes when life gets so hard, but God is a God of life, not death. If you commit yourself to Him, He has a capacity to heal - and to bring peace, love, and even joy into your life, no matter how far away that may seem right now. If you start to think about suicide, please get help - you can call 1-800-273-8255 at any time, night or day, for immediate support.

  • Skip Miller

    Hello Khloe,
    As Ivan has written so very well: you are known and individually precious to God ..........
    even though you may not know it yet! I once felt hopeless and discarded from value.
    Had I taken my life then I would never have heard/read/learned what I did ... several years later. The hurt you are experiencing now can and will be replaced by Real JOY . Please wait.

  • Ivan Veller

    Dear Khloe, you are precious and valued in the eyes of God our Father, who created you special to be His beloved daughter whom He cherishes heart and soul. We have so much to live for. Please choose life!

  • Randomasianguy

    Hello I'm a 16 yrs old and I'm a suicidal and i have trust issues. I have a broken family. I've been living with my grandfather/mother since when i was young. My mother knows about me but she never even take cares of me. I've been suffering with child abuse I know it's pain to take care a kid who's a stubborn brat that's why my grandmother doing it. She keeps lying thats why i didnt still trust her. I only have my grandfather whom i idolize he always takes care of me, he even shielded with his body just to protect me. His the one i want to be but when my grandfather died (2012) my whole world scattered thats when i become an athiest. When my grandfather past away my grandmother keeps abusing me I really don't know what to do but deep in my heart i still love her. Even when i went to highschool i get bullied often thats why i keep skipping classes. I've been trying to run but i cant i realize that having depression and anxiety is so much painful for me. I'm the type of human who cares and help but they doesnt even feel it. I hope someone is there will read this and give some advise I cant really take it anymore i feel like ive been left alone. Pls help a poor teenager in need

  • Skip Miller

    Please !!!
    As Lena said, call the suicide hotline.
    Yes! There are others who will and do love you.
    Keep searching.

  • Lena VanAusdle

    I don't know your name, but please, please, please get help! If you're having suicidal thoughts, please call the suicide hotline (1800-273-8255) or visit their website at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/.

    Have you talked to your school counselor about some of the things you've gone through? Is there anyone you trust that you can talk to?
    I know it may not seem like it, but God does love you, and He wants you to have a good life.

  • michelle1

    I have been sexually abused since age 3 or 4 ... I finally got away from the two horrible monsters in my life... I was also abused by my family and my mother and father never stood up for me with those horrible people. I was told I was fat and ugly and that no man would want me.

    I can't trust them... to add to an already horrible situation I have been dealing with "Huntington's Disease" in my family since childhood ... my grandfatehr died of it when I was 17... Mom got sick in my early adult hood and I have never really had a life I have given so much to be here with her.......and April of 2015 was the worst day of my life when I learned that my future.....has no point....I have Huntington's Disease... a disease that is worse than even cancer.... drs call it the worst disease known to man...

    I don't know what to do....I don't know what to think.....I am setting up a DNR and living will I do not want to be saved from death....and sometimes I Just wanna end my life... I don't want my family to suffer this way with me... and I don't wanna suffer. Does that make me a coward? My whole life... has been lived with pain... emotionally and physically... why should I go on?

  • Skip Miller

    Hello Michelle,
    I cannot help you but God can and will.
    Your situation is horrible.
    I have neither suffered like you and rarely even have heard of a miserable situation as bad.
    But I know that this life is NOT the only one. For nearly fifty years I have been privileged to know and understand God's Plan for me And YOU, in the future. If you were to commit suicide before you learn what I have learned, you would not be able to assist others who have suffered as you have. You would simply be a part of a huge 2nd resurrection to a new physical life -- fair and wonderful but simply for you to learn from. Instead, if you endure, as God says we all must, and if you will accept the responsibility to Learn God's Plan for YOU,
    you could be part of those who teach! What could you teach? You could teach that there IS a God (both Father and Son) who actually love you and others and have a purpose and place for you in Eternity. But you will have to Learn that first, yourself. Would you like to try? If you want to write me personally, you may.

  • El1zab3th

    I apreciate that this is the first Christian website that I have read not condeming a person to hell and acknowledging the complexity of the issue. We are flawed humans who do not know or understand the universe, our bodies, or even an atom entirely, so we really can't know all the factors that lead a person to commit suicide.
    I think that people are cruel to eachother and there are circumstances where the collective cruelty directed towards a single human being can drive them to commit suicide, in which case, anyone who contributed towards shutting thier life out contributed to thier death, therefore the person did not single-handedly murder themselves. Suicide is too complex to blame one single person who is already suffering, and it's not for us to judge who was really the driving force behind the act. Abuse is a form of murder, so people who abuse others through seemingly harmless ways may not be single handedly killing a person or downright commiting murder, but they are driving the person that they abuse faster and closer towards death., in which case they are partially responsible for murder.

  • Roses for Jonghyun

    Hi, I am a 14 year old girl. My favorite idol killed themselves very recently- 64 hours ago, to be exact. I’m not doing so well and my mom tells me to get over myself and she also says that Jonghyun is in hell. I don’t know if there really is a God, but I know in my heart that if God really exists, he is too good to throw a depressed man in hell, but I don’t know anymore since someone else told me the same thing. I never thought that I would live to see any of my idols die, I thought I would be first, and I always joked that if any of them died, I would jump off my balcony. But he did, and I still haven’t. No one is making me feel better and I can feel the pain deep in my gut. I just need to know if he is ok, and is with God, because that’s all I care about. He made so many people happy in his life, and the worst feeling is that he can make me happy, but I couldn’t do the same for him. People told me not to say this, but I still believe it- I wish it was me instead. Help.

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