What Does the Bible Say About Someone Who Commits Suicide?

You are here

What Does the Bible Say About Someone Who Commits Suicide?

Login or Create an Account

With a UCG.org account you will be able to save items to read and study later!

Sign In | Sign Up

×

The Bible records some examples of people committing suicide. While we find no commentary with these incidences, it’s covered in principle in the Sixth Commandment. Suicide is an act of murder. (We recommend that you read the section on this commandment in our booklet The Ten Commandments.)

While there can be no doubt that taking one’s life is wrong, suicide is often a complex matter. Perhaps others are quick to judge and condemn people who take their own lives. But we should avoid the tendency to oversimplify this tragic type of death. Individuals who commit suicide often have been struggling with serious problems, such as depression, alcoholism or other forms of drug abuse. Taking one’s life isn’t the right way to deal with any trial, but the people who do are likely not thinking clearly.

Is there hope for them to live again? God says He will resurrect all the dead (John 5:28-29), and we know that God wants everyone to have a full chance to repent and be forgiven and to be saved (2 Peter 3:9; 1 Timothy 2:4). The Bible shows that those who did not understand God’s spiritual truth during their lifetimes will have another chance at life, a chance to deal with their problems better. By resurrecting them, God isn’t giving them a second chance at salvation, but rather their only chance. See our Frequently Asked Question, “Will Everyone Have a Chance for Salvation?” for more information about this needful and little understood truth—the second resurrection.

We know that the families and friends of people who “succeed” in committing suicide often suffer terribly, as they struggle to understand why their loved one died in this way. The survivors need a great deal of understanding and comfort.

If we can be of further help, please let us know.

Comments

  • Dianamariee
    Hello, My sister commited suicide 10 years ago. She ran her car into a tree. She was a suicidal person. We were always trying to stop her. My uncle took an overdose in 1995. Then Monday March 16th, 2015, our friend across the hall hung himself. All these people I believe went to heaven. God knows the mental problems they had. All of them had given their life to Jesus. I know God forgave them. That is not the unpardonable sin. Pray for the man's girlfriend across the hall as she is in pieces. Also pray for me and my husband as this really hurt me and him. Satan is behind all of this. People have choices, yes, but the Devil will push you to the point of suicide. I have dealt with it. I pray and am married to a Christian man who helps me. I fight anxiety issues and am on medication. Jesus has been and always will be my Rock. People, turn to Jesus, he will help you.
  • lauferrodney

    We don't go to heaven .. We sleep til the resurrection ... no one has gone to heaven except the Father and the Son....nowhere in the Bible does it state otherwise... We all sleep in the ground until the resurrection.

  • olaleet58

    You say you believe all these people went to heaven. May I ask based on what scriptures do you base that assumption?

  • LightSharer
    Wildflower, I found my husband dead in the basement in 2009. He had no obvious illness; in retrospect he was "stashing" morphine I wasn't taking, (after 5 back surgeries and one neck surgery) and used them to terminate his life. My first thought was, "You poor Dear! What hurt you so much that you couldn't share it with your wife?" I never condemned him. (by the way the coroner would not allow an autopsy--other signs point to suicide--that's not the issue) We should remember our Savior's words, "Do not judge, or you will be judged!" (NOT KJV) How can you say he did a selfish act? How can YOU declare HIM selfish? Do you know his mental torments? I empathize the grief you carry, but not for one second did I think of "me"; that "he" was selfish. I am not judging you, though it appears as such; I am reminding you that only Our Lord knows his heart, and can judge--any of us! Blessings, LightSharer
  • Johnk1986

    Lightsharer,
    You said it correctly, its mental torment.
    It's mostly thoughts of a God who lets bad things happen

  • Skip Miller

    Hello John,
    God lets bad things happen. Yes He does, sometimes. Sometimes He doesn't. Why?
    The reason is because God (both Father and Son) have a plan. That Plan includes free will.
    God wants children, not robots and that requires that we choose. Our choices at times are horrendously wrong. THE Plan takes that possibility into account. There is more to the Plan than I can put in this reply but if you request our Holyday booklet and read it, you will be amazed to learn that God (both Father and Son) have anticipated all possible scenarios and have "stacked the deck" so to speak so that you cannot lose (unless you choose to quit!)
    Give it a "look/see." It can't hurt.

  • Lena VanAusdle

    John,
    hi again. You are right, anyone that is contemplating suicide is in mental torment. And while you (and others) may blame God for the troubles we see in this world, it doesn't make it true. God isn't responsible for the problems we see; we are, and Satan is. Humans actively choose to behave contrary to what God wants for us (Jeremiah 29:11, For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope). And He tells us quite clearly, if only we would obey Him, we could lead good lives, with hope and peace (Isaiah 48:18; Deuteronomy 15:5; Isaiah 1:19-21). Not because He wants to control us, but because He wants what is best for us, and as the creator of life He knows how our lives should be run. And not because nothing will ever go wrong, but when things do go wrong we can have peace and joy.

  • ar3023

    Good I agree

  • olaleet58

    That incomplete scripture you gave is not saying don't judge. Its speaking of hypocritical judgement. In other words, don't be in the same sin you tell someone else not to commit. If you read the entire passage in correct context, it says FIRST remove the log from your eye and then you will see clearly the speck in your brother's eye. Most people like to omit that part.

  • mary1970
    My father was a very religious man. He was a preacher for many years and made us read and discuss the bible every night at home. I am not sure what happened but him and the other preachers at church had a falling out and he never took us to church again and eventually stopped teaching us at home. He suffered from health issues and became very depressed. One day 10 years ago some members of my family heard my dad on the back porch praying and asking God for forgiveness. Then they heard a gunshot. When they went out there they found he had committed suicide. They often discuss now whether he is in Heaven or not. They wonder could he be since he asked forgiveness before it happened? Or do you first have to commit the sin than ask forgiveness? Could you give me your views on this?
  • Mitza Dezet

    Mary1970...i am sorry for you...for the pain you feel...your dad's soul was beyond exhausted and desperatly needed to rest. We live in a planet where evil wins most fights.....many of us are raised being told the opposite...
    My parents divorced and all their negative emotions, their grudges...we, the 3 girls out of 5 kids are the ones who recieve them ....my 2 sisters went totally crazy...my father now lives happy with his own new family. Mother "cares" for my sisters who are now mentally ill thanks to all the mental damage shes done to them. The outside world, thinks my mother is a saint and my dad couldnt care less. I have tried a thousand ways to improve my sisters n my mothers life and im finally giving up. At work, I love my job but i depend on my boss to keep it. Shes a the branch mgr n im the assistant. I must remain silent....the story is long.....i am tired of having to take medication to not feel sad and empty..I have my daughter and i dont want her to hurt like you do Mary1970......Dont feel sad...he needed to rest..

  • debbiemois
    I'm very sorry for all the losses and stories from many- but I know it is true that from the sixth commandment that murder is a sin and killing yourself is included. When you become a Christian you are forgiven of all your previous sins when you repent and you try to follow all of Gods expectations and be in obedience to Him. But sin in us makes us dirty and God will not allow us in heaven if we didn't have a sacrifice to forgive our sins and Jesus is our sacrifice- one comment wrote that - even if the book has a bad ending it doesn't mean it's a bad book.- from Matthew 20 it's is about the parable of the vineyard workers- go and read it- the point is that it doesn't matter when you become Christian and work for The Lord, it's that by the end of your life that is most important- this is why we must "watch out" (Matthew 24:42) so that we do not sin. Because all who work for God, no matter at which point in their life, they all get the same reward which is heaven. Also from Matthew 7:21 it says "Not everyone who calls out to me 'Lord, Lord!' Will enter the kingdom of heaven. Only those who actually do the will is my Father in heaven will enter." So according to this verse, do you think it is Gods will for anyone to end their life short- it would be stealing the keys to death from God- "I Am the living one, I died but now I am alive forever and ever! And I hold the keys to death and Hades" (Revelation 1:18)
  • ar3023

    Good Debbie, you explained very well. on point. That was the truth.

  • KristinSasha

    Okay...well I hope you realize that killing a disgusting roach or spider is also considered murder. Also, washing any part of your body (including your hands), could theoretically be considered murder due to the fact that you are "murdering" zillions of bacteria, germs, and other such microorganisms during the process. Therefore, you, too, shall also be condemned to the fiery pits of "Hades".

  • olaleet58

    That's not true.

  • Malachi 3_16-18
    Dear tbsstt, I’m so sorry to hear what happened to your brother. I hope it will help you to know that he hasn’t yet had his chance at redemption (1 Cor 15:19-26; 2 Pet 3:9). United Church of God teaches that while God’s Holy Spirit can work with children, they need to be adults, or close to it, to have the ability to be properly converted and receive God’s Spirit in their minds. So even if your brother already had some knowledge of God’s way, his chance to be redeemed lies yet ahead, when he is resurrected back to physical life, healed of his infirmities – physical, mental, and emotional (Mal 4:2), and given the teaching and empowerment he needs to be happy and successful in life. God’s Spirit isn’t the Spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Tim 1:6-7). Your brother’s future can be so much brighter than what he experienced in this life! I’m sorry you’ve suffered through all of this. UCG has many resources available on the topics of life after death, Christian living, and much more. We also have friendly and loving church congregations around the USA and the world, with caring pastors whom you can feel free to contact if you need help with those “unanswered questions.” For info. on congregations or their local pastors, click on this link: http://www.ucg.org/congregations/all You might also find it helpful to read my earlier comment in the discussion thread on this topic, posted Dec 9, in which I talked about the future hope of those who have died.
  • tbsstt.
    My brother hung himself in 1976. He was 14. He had been diagnosed as hyper active and put on riddalin in the second grade. We lived 13 miles out of town at that time and had plenty of room to run around and burn off extra energy. Then when he was almost 11 we moved to a city and our new pedatrition changed my brothers medication. The new medicine made my brother hear voices and have suicidal thoughts. This was before anyone knew about all of the side affects. I am sorry for anyone who has been left with unanswered questions. I still have a few of my own. I do have hope for his being redeemed because God, our Father, is Merciful.
  • Jarrods mom
    Mistydaz, I am so sorry for your loss and your want for answers. I myself, lost my son to suicide over 4 years ago. He was not a bad man either, but a very loving, caring man with anger issues. With him the anger was never even keeled. When he was angry or upset, he was an emotional wreaking ball. He and his new wife had just gotten married 9 months prior and it was not working out between them at all. Because of an overblown fight, he shot himself in front of her. There is more to the story, but it really doesn't matter here, nor does it apply. Since that day, I've also been searching for the same answer as you, yourself have just asked. I still ask on a daily basis why and what happened to his soul. I've come to the conclusion that no one can actually answer that exact question. People can give you opinions but it's their interpretation of the written bible. My opinion is that God is the only one that absolutely knows the answer. All we can do is trust in what the good Lord tells us thru the Bible and keep praying as we've prayed. As to the why and what questions, you'll need to find an answer within yourself. Absolutely no one can answer it for you, as you can tell by the many different answers according to the internet. I pray that you find peace for yourself and children in this life. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • Malachi 3_16-18
    Mistydaz, I am so sorry to hear of your sudden and recent loss. But I can tell you with conviction that your fiance has NOT gone to the hell fire that mainstream "Christianity" believes in and teaches! It would take too long to explain why here, but UCG's free booklet, "Heaven& Hell: What Does the Bible Really Teach?" explains it thoroughly. Your fiance is no longer alive or conscious (Eccl 9:5,10) but is in effect awaiting a future resurrection to life, when he will receive the healing he needs (Mal 4:2), and the proper teaching of God's ways (Isa 30:20-21)that will enrich his life and fill it with purpose YES, our God IS a loving, forgiving, and merciful God (John 3:16), who is not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance and salvation (2 Pet 3:9). It sounds as though your fiance was plagued with mental/emotional illness and was not able to comprehend God's love for him or plan for his life. And therefore, he has not had his final chance at life. If God notices each sparrow that falls to the ground, He certainly cares about what happens to every one of His children or future children (Luke 12:6-7). This is an incredibly hard time for you to be going through, but I hope that the truths found in God's Word, aided by many free materials you can find on our website, will impart much-needed comfort and hope to you. I am praying for you!
  • Mistydaz
    In October (2013), my Fiance committed suicide leaving me with a 2 year old son and a child on the way. My fiancé was not a horrible man. He was however a troubled man. A sick man. Does this mean that he is in hell? I would like to believe that our god is a forgiving god and that he takes mercy on us. I just cannot find the answers. PLease anyone--please feel free to five your input. I am looking for answers. Thank you.
  • Join the conversation!

    Log in or register to post comments